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>Do they actually look like this
No, you can ignore the images IMO.
>can they shape shift
Yes, effortlessly.
>like it's commonly depicted in media
If they want so, but I wouldn't care. One of my discoveries was that they can be seductive without looking the part. We all subtly, unconsciously and involuntarily influence the people we meet, and they do so even more. If she feels aroused, you do too, no theatrics required. (Is that why they're big on mental hygiene -- to not be contaminated by your mundane worries?)