>>938240975
Social media, dating apps and feminine equality has created a society that caters specifically to empowering women and their sexuality. Women realize more and more that they can sell their bodies, not just in prostitution, but in time, photos and videos, safely at home. Dating apps has made it 100X easier for women to fuck who they want and when, and men are willing to compete.
For every one girl, you have probably ten or more competing (whether they know it or not) to get their attention, to fuck them, to date or whatever. Mid girls, pretty, even fat ones. Women are capitalizing on men's desperation to make money, have fun, get laid at the expense of men catching feelings and trying to prove themselves.
Likewise, a woman can cut ties and find a newer, "better" man the very next day if she ever gets bored, while men have to constantly struggle to match whatever women consider good enough (tall, handsome, rich, funny).
What ended up happening is we created a society of sex-deprived, touch-starved men who are depressed, lonely, and feel that women aren't worth the struggle. They'd rather pay for their services than fight to obtain it.
So that's probably what anon means. Women are using men, and men just miserably hope for their next turn in line. Sounds super incel the way I typed it up, and maybe there's a bit of bias since I was married once and she cheated on me. But that's how it feels.