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In recently living tribes parents and mostly male parent decide who goes with who but it's not in 100% of the tribes seen, so I guess female choice reflection is possible
pic source: https://doi.org/10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2007.05.007

Low status being kicked out can be just purely male sexual selection too though. At any given time there are far more reproductively capable males than females, assuming women had 0 choice and price is high for each, any trade between men of the women would be distributed to high status to low(given young enough to compete) leaving low status with no women since ratio is not 1:1.