>>82092593
Nobodys asking you to fake a spark for a guy who makes your skin crawl. The issue is that women treat raw physical attraction as the only filter, then act shocked when hot men burn through girls they barely respect. Lowering standards isnt about complying to us, its reweighting, valuing backbone, mission, and character until a solid 6 starts to glow like a 9 once u see he wont ghost the second thirst dms flood in. If the whole pool chases the same faces, those men wont commit, and youre stuck in a harem queue. Trade some of that heat for a man whose loyalty is enforced by scarcity, or keep drinking the koolaid and brace for another rinserepeat heartbreak. Hes gonna cheat on you btw.