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>>103908189
this is why shondo needs to just get rid of people, they KNOW this, yet they stick around anyway

they won't leave, they're not here for the right reasons in the first place, and that's what she doesn't get, she can't reconcile the fact that a lot of her regulars (especially the most vocal and manipulative) are never leaving as long as she tolerates them and they KNOW they're around for the wrong reasons they just don't care and make it shondo's problem but she has a ton of menhera about it and thinks fake nise = actually nise and doesn't realize what's really happening and the harm that's done, etc

it's never going to get better because shondo refuses to get rid of any regulars and the people who are like this are regulars that won't leave any time soon especially if she's still feeding them attention

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how long are you guys gonna say this before you start asking yourself why they don't say it with their name attatched yet have been in the community for years

then ask yourself what the solution is
hint: you're not gonna like it

there's a reason me saying shit like "fake husbands cut or cope" pissed people off so much, it hit right at the nerve, and shondo hates that reality, but she's also been indoctrinated and manipulated into liking these people and ignoring who they really are so as long as they act fake nice she'll let it fester and go as far as they'll take it

that's why we've seen the steady trend away from what shondo has always expressed over the last few months and she will still die if you tell her she needs to start getting over the fact that those same regulars are the problem and have shown they have no intent on being better and can't be trusted anonymously either

tl;dr this b i tch is groomed and she needs to get over it, she's literally the stereotype of the abused girl

it's so fucking stupid too because just like fleece she'll get the fuck over it and realize she has way more better people in her life and it's way better without that shit

but her menhera and trauma makes her have a melty at the idea so she'll never get rid of anyone who plays into it intentionally or not even IF she's seen that she's literally fine over the last 4+ years

this is also why she's so protective of the mods despite very valid criticisms against them and their maturity/responsibility too btw, it's the same exact issue top to bottom