>>539755859
> I really wish they were more selfish sometimes
I've been told the same and it's hard to really want to do that because when I see someone hurting there's like an urgent need for me to reach out and see if I can help or what I could do for them.
It also doesn't help that for me, the concept of being selfish is largely associated with the worst examples of people who overindulge being selfish and it arguably making them worse as people. If I were able to see selfishness as a simple "Hey, I need help right now and I would like for you to help me" or "You are way too problematic to keep interacting with any further" then perhaps I could exercise it. Just to me, "Selfish" also includes cheaters, narcissists, and generally shitty people that carry themselves like the people in their lives are nothing more than NPCs generated by the world for their singleplayer RPG to be engaging.
>>539755887
>the good girls
You have no idea how many people viscerally hate me here over the most inane bullshit imaginable like being a Christian.