Guys, is almost 30 (me) and early 20s (her) okay? We are both adults and she's not a teen but it still feels like it's a bit much and would make people question my intentions. It's not like I really care because I don't think I am doing anything wrong but I am concerned about her reputation and the difficulties the age gap could lead to. We aren't dating yet and things are super casual but I do find her captivating and fun but I am also not sure if getting feelings for someone who's just barely an adult is such a great idea. I am also just out of a relationship that was really tough on me, it messed me up good. I do think new girl is much nicer and she could actually give me what I need (previous girl was an avoidant).
So what do you guys think I should do?
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