>>149882719
Self-improvement is a lie. Never, never, never, never change who you are to appeal to a woman.
No matter who you are in the world, there exists someone who will care about you for who you are. The amount of women who care about men's wellbeing is already so slim it might as well not exist. You're much better off not muddying it by appealing to "people" who will only pretend to care about you.
If you want to work out, wear nicer clothes, or anything along that lines than do it for yourself.