>>82122366
>- Why you have never been anyone's first choice
As a man you need to become something valuable to be needed, not loved. I live in a carribean shit hole and trust me, surviving is the goal, leaving your shitty neighborhood and going to live in a cleaner space is the goal, ""love"" is not. As soon as you get that mentality out of your system and begin performing you will attract "friends" and some women attention, that shit is addictive and makes you want to perform more to get more attention. Theres a point in wich you get so SO many physical stuff around you that people stop caring if you treat them like shit, because you give them a life that other men dont.
I figured ths out like two years ago by watching the men the women i liked choosed. It gets to the point that they grabbing their asses in the middle of everyone in a social gathering is something funny and anecdotal.
Become someone so useful that they will overlook your bad actions, thats what long term relationships are. Its something i cant unsee now, its everywhere so the only thing left is becoming like them. Thanks for reading
