>everyone is doing mythic raids and m+50
>I only just dinged 40 because the world lag is killing my motivation to do anything

>late to the party
>want to try out heroic raiding
>80% of pugs want curve
>I'm somehow competing for spots against people who are ilvl 680 (???)
>any time I get in a group everyone is already shitting on either the raid leader or one of the tanks for being braindead
>leaders refuse to assign mechanics to anyone and just tells the group to figure it out themselves
should I just give up and an hero now before my mom discovers my lack of curve?