>>33766048
>I have probably already waited too long, i am 30 after all.
you haven't but you're about to. had kids at 40, wife 41 and being the fucking grandpa looking dad who can't do shit with them because I'm old.
Also if you do try jump on possible fertility issues fucking ASAP you don't have 10 years to waste fucking around.
That said my kids are the best thing that ever happened to me they fill my life with the only true joy I've ever known. We were like "oh the cat is our child" people and "our niece is like our daughter" let me tell you the second I had real kids I'd break all their necks and gas 1,000 kids to make sure they weren't unhappy.
don't forget you're a treasure a divorced women who comes without kids and wants them is a fucking unicorn. don't give up on your happiness, if your man is still a manchild maybe it's time to go out and get what you really want out of life while there is still time.