Anonymous
8/25/2025, 9:35:03 PM
No.938951689
How do I deal with a stalker
Hoping that /b/ has some advice for this situation. I can't be bothered to type the back story again. So TL:DR
>Went on two dates and she told me she sucked off some black dude after our first date who beat the piss out of her and then proceeded to show me a picture of her black eye.
But the weird mentally ill goth bitch
>BPD/NPD type shit from the behaviour she's shown
Has returned to my gym and started hovering around me again.
She stalked me from December to mid June, trying to destroy my reputation in the process. She left me alone for a while and I thought I was finally in the clear. But now she's back.
>I literally don't know what the fuck her obsession is, from what I've heard she has a massive reputation and has sucked and fucked nearly half the guys in the town I live in and the surrounding towns, yet for some reason she stalks me.
We never even shagged, and it was two very shitty dates.
It's not like she does anything now. As far as I know she's burned out her welcome everywhere and no one believes the bullshit she spread about me. But she just watches me
People have suggested a restraining order on this woman. Would that shit even be taken seriously. Would that even stop her. Whenever she shows up I just ignore her existence entirely until she gets pissed off and storms away.
You think the message would have settled in by now, but no. It's been almost a year of this shit
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 9:02:10 PM
No.937320760
Goth stalker: Part 7
This post is just for my mental note, and maybe some anons could throw in their 2 cents as well.
But I was just walking home from the gym with my bro, as I walked passed the pub, I saw her drinking with some of her mates, we locked eyes for a split second and she quickly looked away to look at her friend and I continued walking.
The thing is, she used to genuinely scare me, but I genuinely didn't feel anything. Not anger, not fear, not even a "wtf" I just had the thought of "oh, this is the woman that stalked me for 7 months and tried to make my life hell, the woman that tried to smear my name and destroy my reputation to no success, tried to get with my friends who all told her to fuck off, when that didn't work she just started insulting one of my friends in the street, to try and get a reaction out of me knowing the information would get back to me, tried to get back with an ex who also told her to fuck off etc..."
All that for her to leave the gym I went to and change gyms, stop stalking me, and when she actually saw me she couldn't look me in the eye.
Just weird and I have no explanation. Like... I'm glad she's gone, but why did she do all that? For her to not even be able to look me in the eyes and leave my presence.
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:32:19 PM
No.81884791
Goth stalker: Part 7
This post is just for my mental note, and maybe some anons could throw in their 2 cents as well.
But I was just walking home from the gym with my bro, as I walked passed the pub, I saw her drinking with some of her mates, we locked eyes for a split second and she quickly looked away to look at her friend and I continued walking.
The thing is, she used to genuinely scare me, but I genuinely didn't feel anything. Not anger, not fear, not even a "wtf" I just had the thought of "oh, this is the woman that stalked me for 7 months and tried to make my life hell, the woman that tried to smear my name and destroy my reputation to no success, tried to get with my friends who all told her to fuck off, when that didn't work she just started insulting one of my friends in the street, to try and get a reaction out of me knowing the information would get back to me, tried to get back with an ex who also told her to fuck off etc..."
All that for her to leave the gym I went to and change gyms, stop stalking me, and when she actually saw me she couldn't look me in the eye.
Just weird and I have no explanation. Like... I'm glad she's gone, but why did she do all that? For her to not even be able to look me in the eyes and leave my presence.
Anonymous
6/11/2025, 10:06:55 PM
No.81463893
Goth girl. Final question
So for those of you who remember these series of threads, I can't really be bothered to type a detailed TL:DR
>Goth girl hanged round me for ages
>Worked out my gym times and would always show up at my times (even after working her 12 hour Amazon night shift, she'd still show up at mid day to be in the gym the time I was there)
>Heard from several other people that she would always ask around about me and told others she thought I was fit
>Made a few sexual advances towards me, when I matched her energy she would back off and say she felt nervous
>She asked me out on a date
>Date was terrible
She even casually mentioned the street I lived on whilst on the date even though I never fucking told her (major red flag, how the fuck did she know?)
>Didn't see her for a month
>She invites me out again to rave in London
>Was genuinely a little scared to say no
>On date she tells me she sucked off a black dude who beat her up after our first date and showed me pictures of her black eye
Which explains why I didn't see her for a month
>Told her she was fucked in the head and left her
>She then stalked me for the next 6 months, harassed my friends after she tried to get with them, smeared my name to anyone who would listen and said I abandoned her (even though we were never a thing)
>She recently left my gym and moved to the one across the road
>Heard she's had several failed "relationships" in those 6 months and is now going out with a 45yo, she's 24.
I know she's crazy and no longer a problem to me or my friends anymore. But my final question that lingers on my mind, why did she make all those sexual advances and then back off saying she was nervous? When she asked me out on the date she was shaking saying she was so nervous.
Yet she seems to have fucked half the town from what I hear. Why?
>Also why be nervous about me but hook up with a random black dude who then beat the piss out of her?
Whole shit was psycho to begin with. But hey that's the question on my mind.