Should I just abandon my family at this point?
>mom receives 20K from the state after legal labor stuff
>starts spending it all on useless crap like a TV, furniture, shit just for showing
>we get into a big argument because I say she's being dumb and she says "It's my money, I do what I want"
>gets fined for frauding the water company
>the fine was 15K
>she had nothing left, now the fine will be paid monthly with interest
>I have to help her or else she will be homeless or starving
Also, when I was a teen she threatened to kick me out if I found a job because it would make child support stop(it was 1/5 of the minimum wage). This made very difficult to find a job as an adult.