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NTA but most of xivg has routinely proven they honestly should not be allowed to make their own decisions unless peer reviewed by a focus group of functional human beings
You do sincerely need to feel like you are shepherding some lost sheep here sometimes with how many of the worst sociopaths to ever get entangled with are the ones who put on a good enough face for a month then you get "Well, they were nice to me one time" type comments when they inevitably fuck someone else over
I sometimes envy the pure, unadulterated selfishness of most of /xivg/, I would be able to shrug and turn a blind eye to it, instead I do this