>>33877971

Brother I feel your pain but you are way too emotionally involved in what happened there.

If you are gonna go on any of these apps, you need to accept that rejection, ghosting and random unmatching is literally woven into the mechanics of the game you have chosen to play.

Otherwise it's extremely destructive for your self esteem and mental health. It's going to happen. It happens to everyone. It's not a big deal. Please sir, contain yourself, compose yourself and get a sense of perspective.

There is no app which will protect you from this. The best you can do is make yourself as unappealing as possible to as many as possible by making an extremely specific, loud and clear, flare / signal with your profile that means that while you are filtering 99% of the app, the 1% that do like you, will really like you for you.