>>29592000
do you have an aneros or something of that type? ive never had a dry orgasm any other way. only other advice i can give is that you have to be really relaxed (body and mind). If i clench any muscles while one is building it almost always ruins it unless i can relax them again. the worst one for me to clench is my butthole usually.
Another thing that helps me have them is to literally try to have them. what i mean by this is that you have to want it in your head. It sounds weird, but you know how people think you can control your qi (or whatever else they like to call it) with your mind? If i try in my head to push any pleasure i feel further, it usually leads to it actually building further.
I dont know i think its all about how well youre able to get into it, mentally wise. I on the other hand, am unable to have wet orgasms with my butt lol. the only way im able to do it is if i play with my penis/put a vibrator on it. I think i need an actual dildo if i want to have one of those