>>11364444
It doesn't feel that way, they are just different ways to have an orgasm, i do believe the key for having the best ones is the mental state tho.

>>11364448
You are not Aiming right, and I'm being serious , you are NOT AIMING RIGHT. The easiest way to do it is using fingers. You don't need more than 2/3ths of your middle finger to reach the prostate. If you miss the spot you'll stimulate the bladder.

The build up to the HFO doesn't feel like you are going to pee. Its more like the feeling when you have a frenulum orgasm. Also you don't need a certain type of video to watch to get on the mood. You decide in which mood you are and choose the video accoringly.

Try it for a week, just touch, poke around and learn which position works best for you. I can't HFO in cowgirl nor laying back. I sooometimes i can do it doggy leaning on something and i can always reach it in like 5 min (it tooked me more at first tho) if im laying down facing down with a pillow at my bellybutton (it makes it easier for me to reach it)

Also, big dildos don't work for me, i can't never climax with a big dildo, it ends up stimulating my bladder and ruin the experience