>>76614414
>When you make a girl your gf suddenly she starts nagging and demanding things.
Yeah, she does not nag but she demands a lot of things. To be fair, they are small things (not a gold digger or anything), but they do add up. Two things annoy me.
1) The "I'm stressed!" talk
Whenever she starts with
>OMG anon I am so stressed about uni
I just think to myself
>Here we go again with this shit
because I heard it 20 times already. Does that make me a bad bf? The thing is, my credo is to just keep shit to myself as to not burden others. I would never not in a million years complain to my gf because I am stressed or sad or anything, I just keep this shit to myself.
2) The "could you..." command
She constantly asks me to do shit she is very perfectly capable of doing herself
>Could you turn the lights off?
>Could you bring me a glass of water?
>Could you check if the door is locked?
Mind you, all those things are a few steps away from her. She expects those things of me, she said if I do not do those things, small things, that means I do not care about here and can't be relied upon with big things. To me it just feels like I am a fucking sleeper agent or like that Bioshock scene where it turns out he is mindcontrolled with this command. Again, my issue: I would never and do never ask this shit herself. If we are both 5 steps away from the kitchen and I want a glass I water, guess what. I get a fucking glass of water. I don't ask her to do it for me. Imagine if the roles were reversed and I (male) would tell her to do all those things for me.
>OMG sis you NEED to leave him!
would be posted 60 times.

Am I making sense or do you think I'm overreacting?