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I think what the person was meaning is that while finding a lasting relationship is very good, it's not gonna magically solve all your problems. Just like a job, house, or car, when we lack something like that we tell ourselves "if I just had that everything would be ok" and in a sense yes. But these things aren't "end goals" as when you get something like a job, house, or girlfriend the "work" or "fight" isn't over. While you may have sorted out the problems not having them lack, having them also presents thier own hurdles.

You got a job, yay money but now you gotta adjust your schedule and routines

You got a house, yay home, but now you have to insure it, and make repairs when something breaks

You got a gf, yay romance, but now you have to make compromises with her, adapt your lifestyle just as she will have to aswell, it's a tricky balance

So I think what hes trying to say is that life never lets up, (unless you're like a billionaire or something) and I'm not trying to say that in a doomer way, but more we spend the most time with ourselves, and while yes, relationships with others, both romantic and platonic are incredibly important, if we value gaining them over bettering ourselves, it's gonna make everything harder. It's why having Hisao go the white knight route always leads to a bad end. Because like us, the girls need some time to help themselves before they can let us into thier lives