>>82455115
I feel like women get a lot more leeway with objectifying men. You'd never really think twice about a woman saying objectifying things about a guy, but the other way around seems a lot worse for some reason. Regardless, objectification sucks.
>>82455119
>this just made it way way worse
Every time someone leaves you, it trains your brain to think that the next person is going to leave you too. It affirms your fears/beliefs and makes it that much harder to heal.
For me, I just take it as a given that she'll leave me eventually, at this point, so much so that I kind of found peace with it and it didn't even hurt that much when she ghosted me. I just said to myself, "Well, that's it, I guess."
Unfortunately, I think I now have problems with loving people. How can you love someone while constantly fearing that they'll leave? It's impossible to trust someone while fearing they'll leave all the time. I don't think anything will fix it. (Probably would've helped me if I had better parents too.)