Never settle for a non virgin woman
If a woman has a history of engaging in hookup culture but expects you to work harder for sex than the men in her past, discard her. She implicitly values you less and thinks you are less attractive than the men she was willing to let shove her face into the mattress after meeting 20 minutes ago.
She does not see you as "hookup material" but rather as "husband material", aka betabuxx who will take care of her after she has given her best years to chad cock.