>>718947017
It is a sort of sunk cost fallacy for relationships I guess. They had been together for a better part of a decade by the point my niece was born, and I guess that the fantasy of her bf finally straightening his life out and at least getting some responsibility over their now family life was shattered when he refused to change for the better at all. To my knowledge that dude is still doing the same deadbeat shit, but now has a different chick pregnant with his kid.

Why women get with men like him, will forever be a puzzle to me.