I think R07 did a good job describing how the relationships and the community of villages work.. maybe EU little fellas here can't understand it, but as someone who lives in a village now for a couple of years? this is legit what is happening @_@ there is a family here that is pretty much hated from something that happened 20 years ago, they are not being treated as badly as the family in this ge, but everyone talks about them behind their backs, and they don't get any invitations or good treatment out of the obligations to say Hi to them if people meet them somewhere... even when sometimes the neighbors bring sweets to each other for some occasion or just out of kindness (like the sweets i keep getting) the hated family? get none of it... it's sad that village communities just have this fossil mind-set and some people have such cold hearts... i think also the family is quite prideful and not try to settle something this old... so nothing will change ,_,