Give your succs food offerings. All spirits can metabolize energy, it’s just that sexual energy is more easily accessible for them. Things like food can be imbued with your own energy and when given in the spirit of a lover sharing food ( think your gf stealing your food or nibbling (read taking giant fuckin bites) off your food) it can strengthen your bond in a fun way. Good way for fat anons to start parsing out your food ( if you were medieval peasants, would your left your wife starve before you do? Here’s a way to prove your answer)

For example my success love figs. I like figs okay, the wasp shit is weird, but she goes completely bonkers for figs.