>>41049875
>fiancee
no matter how you handle this it isn’t going to end well. many trannies dream of getting married. don’t bring up your actual reason, come up with something else that has nothing to do with her being trans, otherwise you’ll shatter her heart. i’m not sure what that reason could be, it’s going to depend on context within your relationship, but she absolutely can’t know it’s cause you want bio kids. i will ask, are you certain the thing you care about is simply having a bio kid and it has nothing to do with the two of you having a kid. she probably feels bad about it as well, maybe it’s grief you can both work through together.