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>>41581575
in theory yes, but it depends on what my boyfriend (would be a husband if we’re having kids) wants. i’d probably still get a womb transplant for the sake of having one, but i’m not 100% certain i’d use it. my inability to get pregnant is the biggest problem, not necessarily not being pregnant
>>41410224
yeah, that’s how it is. i think i could get over never being a mother, but i don’t think i can get over letting my bf down like that (though he says he doesn’t care so i’m not going to self sabotage over it). it’s not necessarily a part of womanhood, it just feels awful to be forever barred from it and treated like a weirdo for wanting to mourn that. guess that’s life for a tranny
>>41403866
>>41049875
>fiancee
no matter how you handle this it isn’t going to end well. many trannies dream of getting married. don’t bring up your actual reason, come up with something else that has nothing to do with her being trans, otherwise you’ll shatter her heart. i’m not sure what that reason could be, it’s going to depend on context within your relationship, but she absolutely can’t know it’s cause you want bio kids. i will ask, are you certain the thing you care about is simply having a bio kid and it has nothing to do with the two of you having a kid. she probably feels bad about it as well, maybe it’s grief you can both work through together.
>>40978215
it’s fucking miserable that a somewhat normal life is impossible for a vast majority of us simply because we were born wrong. is being a normie really such a big ask?
>>40415829
everything about the childhood i never got to have. it makes me feel especially othered when i’m searching up things like “how to blow dry hair” like some divorced dad trying to help his daughter but it’s just for myself since i never learned. learning things that should be second nature as an adult is embarrassing. this also plays into the part about not being able to give a potential partner a child, since i also can’t provide first hand advice on growing up as a woman
>>40394771
>trans girls only want one thing
and we’ll never fucking have it
>>40249600
ok look i do feel bad that you can’t have this but i also feel bad about not being able to have this and you didn’t need to remind me to feel bad about it today. it’s honestly brutal to think about. one of the things constantly on the back of my mind in my relationship is if he’ll one day realize he actually wants bio kids