I got abandoned completely by several men I wanted to have serious relationships with and even went on first dates with them. And some of them even harassed me and shit talked me for discord clout, one of was deeply malicious and the other doesnt care and only does it to get clout in a discord server.
My boyfriend is the only man I flirted with who stayed with me in a serious relationship. I do have a former fwb who still talks to me but I never wanted a serious relationship with him.
I am grateful to my boyfriend for being the only man who stayed in my life, without any malicious intentions and to actually love me for me. Unlike many men who tried to ruin my life just because I flirted with them. (Only one in particular was that malicious with me, but I still appreciate my boyfriend for saving me)