been together with my gf for almost two years now, and we moved in together about 9 months ago.
she has her struggles with self doubt and generally being quite unsure about what to do with her life. Although she has some things she likes to do a bit, she really (atleast in her own words) have no interest in anything.
she really is her own worst enemy, and it hurts to see her get so down. I try to help, but often to little effect, and in general it drains me to use so much time and energy trying to help her. Ofcourse I love her, so I do it, but I have my life of my own you know, atleast some small fragments of it.
things recently took a turn down after talking together about how this really isn't sustainable, and things have been weird since then.
I'm a unique fellow, and I really have never met a person that I truly connect with in such a way, and I'm afraid I'll never find it again were this to end.
But the girl I love feels like she's gone in her own depths of dark thoughts half or atleast 1/3 of the time. What to do bros, this sucks and as you can guess from my writing, I'm kind of confused and uncertain all over the place right now.