>be me
>19 m incel
>have the nerve to try and get girlfriend
>find attractive girl at food court
>quickly down my hotdog on a stick and approach her
>"greetings madam i would love to purchase your food in exchange for your number"
>she smiles at me and looks around
>"oh thank you so much but i actually have a boyfriend and he's coming right now"
>large buff man wanders over
>"hey babe who's your new friend"
>i awkwardly walk away and go back to hot dog on a stick to buy another hotdog
how do i stop encountering these chuids with boyfriends and get one of my own?