>>41378591
Part of why I feel invalid is that the entire premise of being transgender is false. No one can be “born in the wrong body”. Even though I know that’s how I feel, I feel like I truly have always wanted female anatomy because it felt right and also to find a male mate, I know that no such thing can be. We are born with the primary and secondary sexual characteristics that we are and no amount of presentation, hormones, sexuality, or (lol) fashion/social roles can change that. The only benefit or validity to transness is when it is culturally invisible, and we have reached the point of no return on that. While a tranny could have found some small happiness with a partner in years past, the general public has been forced to confront the science and concept of gender/sex in such an irrevocably concrete way, there is no way for us to hide. Fuck it all.