>>82322772
ive only been dieting for a month and i have thigh gap already
3. Tell her how you feel, honestly.
Say something like:
> "I care about you and I want to see where this relationship could go, but sometimes I feel like your interest in me changes depending on what you think I can offer materially. I need to know if your feelings are truly about us."
This is clear, respectful, and invites honesty.
4. Make meeting a reality-but only if she's emotionally consistent.
If she's emotionally supportive and genuinely wants to connect, then planning to meet is a healthy next step. But if she's hot-and-cold and using your financial situation as leverage, it's not wise to invest in travel or more emotional labor right now.
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_ Important: Protect your mental and emotional well-being.
Ask yourself:
Does this relationship make me feel secure and valued most of the time?
Am I more anxious than fulfilled when we talk?
Do I feel pressured to prove myself or my worth through money?
If it's a constant emotional rollercoaster, that's not love-that's instability, and you deserve better.
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If you'd like, I can help you write a message to her that's honest but non-confrontational. Or, if you're just unsure whether this is worth continuing at all, we can talk through that too. Just let me know.
