Man i wish i realized earlier how much not cumming helps enjoying anal.
Been into anal on and off for like 5years now and i never really reached a point where i enjoyed it for real.
I realized recently that actually ejaculating wasn't my favorite part of masturbation at all. I can just edge and stop the session without climax and it's fine. So i started taking psyllium again and been masturbating with a plug in my ass, long enough so it pokes the prostate. And man after like 5 days of not cumming my prostate is so much more sensitive it's crazy. I actually feel my prostate for the whole time i fap now(i have had this weird issue where i don't feel my prostate anymore like 2min into the session) and i actually enjoy riding a dildo for real now, focusing on what feels good, etc.
Accepting that I don't have to reach ejaculation when masturbating has been the best thing that happened in my anal journey.

I've always felt stuck with anal so It's a big step for me and i wanted to share.