How to un-twink yourself.
I am a 20 yo, 5'6 and 178 pounds and let's say that I look physically frail and a soft personality and character.

But I never consider myself a twink bc I am not beardless, hairless and I am the less effeminate in my gay friend group, so not a Yas queen (no offence to effinate btw)

However every time a guy tried to seduce me they always treates me as their future sex toy or hole of the night. I feel bad bc I feel stuck in a case that I hate. You're a twink and a butthole to someone.

Sadly I have the curse of being attracted to masc male. And I really don't like to have a BF that only consider me as a sex object and a power bottom. And from what I see mascs (and maybe the majority of the gays) are tops and don't want to be bottom (I am a vers)

What should I do ? I started gym but what next (please no looksmaxxing cult thing)

PS : Ofc I have no hate on twinks and people who have a twink kink