>>942317519
Whatever happens next just happens. There isn’t any free will. One way I like to steer things is into letting go. Recognizing that you are just along for the ride, no free will and no soul, can help people choose to let go. Many things will violate your preferences, and you have no control over it. So you have two options. Keep caring and suffer, or let go and enjoy peace. Practice not caring and you can have unconditional bliss. Suffering is pain + avoidance.

Remove the avoidance part through acceptance and letting go and suffering becomes impossible.

Care = suffer
Let go = peace and wellbeing