38/M/NYC-Miami/straight

Normie-passing curio collector seeking self-aware friends... eccentrics who enjoy peering into the dark.

I’m good at understanding and motivating people. It’s made me good at flirting, banter, and making people laugh. I attend a lot of parties, and for the right crowd, I’m a huge extrovert. I used to feel invisible and awkward, so I'll often chat up dorks and outcasts so they feel included too, but I'm indiscriminate: hot girls, twinks, normies, I'm here for fun. Laughing with new late-night friends on a foggy dance floor is peak comfy.

Other than that, I like learning about subcultures, debating hypotheticals, and meeting data/info dweebs. I’d ideally enjoy meeting someone similar to me to talk to about banter and various party scenes, but I’m game to chat even if you’re an introvert dweeb - I’m a fan of novelty. But have good intentions, and a glimmer of hope.

No romantic advances, at least off the bat. I’m not interested in “trad gf’s,” and doubly so for aspiring “Catholic trad gf’s” from… Rajasthan. But I wish your bajra crops well this season, saar.

You: inquisitive, optimistic, and resilient. We don’t have to share everything in common, but you should be open-minded enough to consider ideas counter to your beliefs; tough enough to laugh through your tears despite tragedy; and mature enough to amicably resolve conflicts.

I care about your values more than your consumptive habits, but if it helps you say hi, here’s some things (normiest to spergiest) I’m into at the moment: fashion and jewelry, art and architecture, healthy cooking, photography (self portrait related), joke construction, pathophysiology, historical decorative arts, 40k lore, systems thinking WRT geopol & macroecon, walking and nature.

And if we do meet, I’d enjoy a walk, a museum, a hike, a dance party… anything where we’re moving. I despise sitting for long periods of time.

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