>>11372755
The recommendation is for the broader group yeah. Some people get harder erections, some people are retarded and rush in and hurt themselves, and generally it's just there for people to get a feel for what a properly sized cage is, experience erections and sleeping, etc. in one, then size down gradually when they get a feel for longer-term use.
If you're just wearing to knock your socks off and take-off, go smaller is easy too, don't have to deal with it forever.

>>11372793
Get a strap and stop having such a massive dong. But really, kinda normal when you get erections and just generally it just kinda smooshes against the plate in the best case.