How did you get over feelings of resentment towards society after being bullied in school?

I've always been attracted to women along with men and was always teased in school about seeming lesbian however I envision myself with a man in the future for religious reasons and have never been with a woman. Would most men be bothered by their partner also being attracted to women? Btw I wouldnt even really describe myself as masculine at all just autistic and maybe a bit oblivious to how I come across.