Good fuh you petah. Growing as a person is part of life normally and it's almost always usually a good thing ultimately. It just gets better and better if you keep working on it. Life will always be hard, but the things that were hard before often will have gotten easier with time.

It's a relatively implicit, I guess... "quality" to have as a person, but one that oftentimes takes perseverance, dedication, hard work, and even grit. It has to be worth it, but for those who achieve what I'm talking about it almost always will have been so once the swing of things is underway. In some cases you might be able to look at this like a skill