>>29394239

I'm not American and the financial side, while being an issue, is the least of it. We'd need to double down from the lifestyle we have now but we'd manage. It's the constant stress, bad sleep and lack of our own time that is the main issue. We don't have any close relatives living near us to help. Our closest friends are in the same situation so we don't want to bother them too much. Still, life could be worse, and I don't want to deliberately make it so.
Congrats on your third though, there's no doubt it brings you happiness.