>>82235626
>Pleasing them is a sexual form of job security.
I don't even think you can call it that, because that implies that it's a chore. If I'm really feeling the energy with someone, then it becomes a fucking game to me.
I start touching every part of her body and observing her reactions. I double down on anything that makes her twitch harder than normal.
Current girl I'm fucking doesn't really like clit play, but loves penetration and fingering. I've been giving her at least one orgasm every time we hang out (4 times now maybe).
Sometimes it's from the double finger come hither method, with varying speeds and intensities to keep her guessing.
Sometimes it's slow and sensual missionary with a ton of kissing. She'll wrap her legs around my back and pull me in as deep as possible, and her pussy griiiiiiips when she does that. I use my elbows for support and place each of them right above her shoulders so that they "bounce her back" onto my dick, so to say.
Sex is the funnest thing in the world whenever you're really vibing with someone and you've got some of your substance of choice involved. For she and I it's good ol' legal recreational marijuana.
When you get hyper-focused on reactions and body language, and she's gripping you so tight that every pump feels like you're gonna bust, it's actually really fucking easy and even more fun to make a woman orgasm hard.
There's something really satisfying to my male ego to know that I walked into this bitch's house without knocking, got her clothes off in minutes, and had her shaking uncontrollably by the top of the hour.
I hope everyone on this board gets to feel this eventually.