I don't understand these irl idol meet ups. And I kind of feel bad for these girls. They have to be nice and maybe even shake hands with unattractive men (most men who go to these meet ups are completely chopped from what I've seen, either short, about as tall as the girl, old or obese or balding or everything at once).
I don't see what you get out of that. They have to realize it's fake, right? Not even the obvious surface level thing most "non-delusional" fans might think
>This guy might be unattractive, but I'm thankful that he's my fan
rather, it's
>Ew, get this guy away from me asap, I want to go home to my bf
I wonder if they're just getting off from making them uncomfortable
Looking at bikini pictures of girls with big boobs = makes sense
Playing pretend that you're friends with these girls = makes no sense
It's mixing stuff that shouldn't be mixed, sexual lust and parasocial relationships