>>76613260
My parents went through a messy divorce when I was like 6 and I ended up with my broke methhead dad somehow, who was so bitter about the divorce he would just buy us all mcdonalds wether we were hungry or not and were made to stay at the table until it was all eaten. Me being the youngest I thought it was awesome, developed a habit of finish all the food (that I still have to this day more or less) and was also obese until around the end of high school when I got a big growth spurt and didn’t look as fat for a bit. I didn’t get into fitness until I was like 25, I was overweight until like 26 or so. Now I’m 5’11” 152 lbs 30 years old and hovering around visible abs which is nice. I’m not strong and I’m not big, but I look good imo and I’m leagues happier having come from a crack house where the lights and water would periodically turn off and we ate nothing but fast food and free food given to us from food drive places which was usually like cake somehow lol.
I’m blogging but all this to say when you move out it’s your responsibility from then on. You can’t blame your childhood for your inability to rise to a challenge when you’re an adult. You can acknowledge that it hinders you a little and then you overcome it. Or you just don’t and that’s on you, not dad. It’s never too late anon