I don’t understand shipper obsession ngl. It sounds very freaky and weird to me. I’ve watched little anime/have less exposure to foreign media so maybe thats why the concept feels weird. With self inserters obsession I kind of get it since its their form of release/escape where its literally ‘their waifu/husbando’ who they equate to being in love with
I also find the people who go ‘oh they’d make a good couple/they’re cute together’ are normal and sane
But I don’t get the ship obsessed freaks who lash out and are aggressive for no reason. Can you imagine your friend getting a gf/bf and they’re dating, and then you IRL go ‘I ship them obsessively Renhareng Phaidei!!!!! Omg!!!’
You’re not even involved in the equation in anyways whatsoever yet it’s personal to you? Wtf?