Debatable. The 17 year old daughter of one of the heads of the NGO I volunteer for recently approached me in courtship and initiated our connection. Her father is a gentleman and sees us getting closer, and after me offering to help him out on his property with maintenance, he's invited me to spend next Saturday with him at a club he attends hinself. I believe that if you concentrate on pursuits that are truly fulfilling for yourself, compatible women will see your worth and take the first step as they've already established a sense of comfort/interest/excitement in their head about you

All relationships I've had that have had any genuine merit have always been initiated by the woman and I'm really excited with how natural this one has been playing out: I always catch her green eyes looking at me now with a little smile when our eyes meet:)