I've been coming to terms with it all myself. I'm starting to get aged out of the dating market in terms of quality women that haven't been ran through. I barely have the finances to stay afloat, and every single woman is a time and financial investment. Most arent dating to marry, most have pasts, and as badly as I want a wife to raise our children with, the reality is insanely bleak. Coming to terms with the potential of being alone and a genetic dead end is tough, especially when all your friends are married (and though you hate to notice it, they are all brown with wonderful white wives who openly talked about how they wouldn't have dated white guys). You just realize how all the cards are stacked. The media portrays white men as evil, women who were sold hedonism then try white men who they are told are the worst so the moment the guys call them out for anything they believe the media is right and break up with them, they then go for the brown people everyone says is benevolent and are more forgiving of their shortcomings, they end up single moms and undatable. They become bitter and we are already bitter and disillusioned so theres no compromise.
None of this is sustainable, none of it works. It just sucks that we are the ones who get to suffer for the people in power's eugenics experiment. We got born into one hell of a fucked up timeline.