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My headcanon has always been that we don't see Finn hung up on other people because he died at peace with everyone he knew and loved and got to say goodbye or some kind of closure at the end. Everyone except for Jake who probably died abruptly when Finn was young and Finn never got to say goodbye and never got closure and it's always haunted him

Speaking from experience, losing someone of natural causes like old age versus losing someone abruptly at a young age is starkly different. They're both sad but the latter hurts so much more especially if you never got to say goodbye or tell them you loved them just one last time. There are so many regrets and anger over the things you left unsaid, the years and time with them you feel robbed of. It sucks and it geniunely feels like you'll never get over it. Yes you can move on and feel relatively happy but that pain is always there bubbling underneath the surface

With an older grandparent.fpr example you can at least take solace that they lived a full life, that they died happy with no regrets. Sometimes you know it's coming so you can say goodbye and tell them everything that needs to be said. Not with other person who does young. You will never get that closure and it's that unknowing that eats away at you.

I get why Finn was so desperate to find Jake in together again. I don't know if I believe in god or heaven but sometimes I find myself thinking that it would be nice if it was real and that seeing them again one day might be something to look forward to