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It's the vulnerability
Women don't find men attractive but do find each other attractive, the more effiminate and thin(slender) you are the more they want to BE YOU, and thus they lust and must own you and your face and body.
It's a unicorn thing for them, because most "effeminately handsome" men come in 2 types, mentally shit or gayer than a cock doilie, so the rare, straight and soft spoken variety is considered unicorn tier.
>How do you know
Because I am a former catboi and have fucked as many lesbians as straight women because that is literally what they are into
Dykes lose their fucking minds when they found out that my dick was available for them to use, half of them end up with a man after one night with me because denying their desire for dick just becomes pointless after they get one night with a fantasy.

So yeah, gymcels are single because having too much muscle is the same as being too fat in they eyes of a woman.
I grew up with hulk Hogan, Arnold, Scott Steiner and don't get me wrong amongst men being strong and yoked is impressive but to women you just look like a crude ugly unwanted rape waiting to happen
They like skinny, like rock band skinny boys, always and forever, if you can pull off "youthful slender" and don't have the face of a garbage can then you will endlessly be desired and likely raped if you just sit there pretty and don't ever speak up for yourself.