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nta, but I’ve also tried compromising for lower tier men: balding, beer gut, conservatives, shit hygienes. At least a handful of them I’ve been patient up to several years in trying to value their personality (minus shit views) over their looks but I realized I’ve been over compromising when I clearly felt physically uncomfortable forcing myself to be with people Im not attracted to.

Exercise, diet well, don’t do drugs, have or be working towards a career (idc if you’re holding a waiter job if it’s temporary while you work on improving your life), and be passionate about a hobby of yours. Personally, I really love nerdy guys that fit the aesthetic on the thinner/lanky side.

Rotund and hairy men have been miserable for cuddling. This includes the chad/muscular/gym-bro fit types too; typically boring/normie personality and their odor and body sweat just constantly turns me off. I don’t want to lower my standards again after those experiences.