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Transformation is ultimately the end goal of all magic, and for these people a succubus is complete sexual liberation that constantly agonizes them. For Christians, this is Sainthood, Buddhists it is Buddhahood, for Alchemy it is godhood. Assuming you make it past the initiatory stages, don't stumble into a pit on your journey, and provide something of greater use to Lilith and Queens. The end result is becoming a succubus. The tipping point is that you are more useful to them than being a random human or some slave to a succubus. I would imagine in the days of yore a fierce battlemaiden would make a suitable candidate. Remember these are supremely attractive spirits, if you're interested in them, so are vastly more powerful entities as well, and not for benevolent intentions. Succubi want to maintain their power and independence, lest they become human women enslaved to a greater male power. This is the reason why they don't care for weak-willed men that grovel before them, begging for a relationship. They cannot afford such weakness or displays of mercy. Either prove your worth through exemplary action or be content with the role which is given. Which comes to the curious case of men wanting to become succubi. This involves the man being reincarnated as a female and see if they have what it takes to prove their worthiness. It is very easy to lust for feminine power without having to accept the burdens that come with it. As for those not on that path, again the succubus serves as an initiatrix to magic, just like a priest serves as an initiator to a faith. But in the case of magic, you do not devote yourself to a greater power, you're more like a salesman trying to acquire power from these entities. Likewise, the spirit is seeking to gain something from you.

There are less dangerous channels of spiritual communication. This is why religions exist. Those relationships have been beaten and forged by their adherents over generations.