>>34168617
"Tomboy" = a girl who likes doing masculine things, or acting masculinely.

"Lesbian" = a girl who likes other girls.

Do you feel any attraction towards women or want to date women?

1) Yes? You're lesbian. Maybe you're a tomboy too if you like doing masculine things etc., but you don't have to be a tomboy to be lesbian. No one should degrade you for being lesbian, that's homophobia, which is uncool. And it's their problem, not yours.

2) No? You're just a tomboy. Tomboys can like men. Or women, it doesn't matter. Being a tomboy doesn't make you "undateable" if that's your concern. And if you're tired of men fetishizing this, you don't have to accept their advances. It's their problem and not yours (and a good step 1 could be to get off of 4chan lol).

Either way, just keep being yourself. People like it when you be yourself: romantically or otherwise. If you want to change, you can, but do it organically rather than trying to force yourself into doing things or acting ways you don't like.