>>11366519
>How did you even meet her?
Met her while I was stationed in Korea. She was in the process of rebelling against the Korean tradwife thing so dating an American serviceman was pretty much required. We ended up working really well together, much to her parents' amusement, and when I rotated out of Korea we were married and I was doing the paperwork to get her over to the states with an I-130. But that probably isn't what you're interested in. We had a kid and then she got bored being home all the time. So she got really into the gym scene and went back to college. I mean she went all in on weight lifting. She was like 115 after having two kids and quickly put on close to 20 pounds of lean muscle. That got her into the competition scene and she just inflated from there (right out of the competition scene, amusingly). I think the heaviest she ever was...like 205, maybe? On a bulk, mind you. When she finally tapered we ended up pregnant with #2 and 3 and then she settled into something a bit more manageable weight-wise and she was there for close to 12 years. First kid leaves the nest and suddenly it's time for a baby, I guess. Anyway, all the hard parts are past us now so she's back on the gas.